This will seem like a narcissistic post. Sharing what I love about myself. However, I was a bit stumped. I didn’t know what to answer. I thought long and hard before I could come up with something. Then I got to wondering if it is a bad sign that I took so long to even find a thing I love about myself . Oh well… overthinking at its finest. What I love about myself? I love that I don’t care about what others think of me now. Actually, even when I was younger, I am not too both

So many causes worth fighting for, so little time. Putting aside religious and political causes, I have a few others that I keep close to my heart. I will share one here.  Supporting local businesses is one of my favourite thing to do. I do a monthly shoutout here at my blog for local businesses and the people who run them. It is a way to be connected with the amazing things our locals are bringing to community. I have immense respect for people who embark into the business w

If they do remember me, I want to them to remember that I made them feel loved, appreciated and treasured. I want them to remember the good times we had together. And if there were any rocky moments between us, I hope they remember that I chose to be with them and fight our problems together. I want them to remember me as one of their good friend and confidante. Someone who lend them a listening ear and my shoulder to cry on.  I want them remember the bits of me that are wond

A question that will reveal how horrible I truly was once upon a time.  My biggest regret is hurting the people that don’t deserve to be hurt. Hurting the people who, without questions, chose to love and trust me. The young me was very stupid and self-absorbed. Thinking the world was at my feet and everyone should be catering to me. Never realising that my actions were very dreadful.  The guilt of what I did still eats me up today. But it is what I must carry until judgement

Hmmm… if I knew I could not fail… There are a bunch of things I would definitely do. Too many, in fact. In order to keep this short, I will break this into personal and business.  For personal, I would like to take up various language classes. Since I will not fail, it means I will be able to be quite proficient in whatever that I am learning. I would take up Tamil, Arabic, Javanese and sign languages. Tamil because it is one of the main languages in Singapore. Arabic because

When I was younger, probably around 11 - early 30s, I have this need where people need to understand me. They need to understand who I am, what I stand for, my perspectives, my opinions, what I like or what I hate. I must inform them because I am the one that knows! When in actuality, I know nothing at all. It is true what they say empty vessels make the most noise! Now, I don’t have this need for people to understand me. It is fine if our views and opinions clash. I don’t ow

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Forgiving others is what have been drill into us. But very rarely, we are taught to forgive our own selves. I think it is time we do that....

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I went through a rather difficult childhood. It is not something that I will wish upon anyone to have. But everything that had happened...

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A simple question that can stump anyone. What truly makes me the most happy? What makes me happy has evolved over the years. Now, my...